A story to be told..

There's a story that I think I should tell you guys about..It could be an inspirational story to some of you and to the rest of you guys that hated this story, do keep your thoughts to yourself..in that way, nobody can get hurt. Peace..

Once upon a time, there's a boy named Jake. He lives in Malaysia and studies at a nearby University College at Pahang. He is studying Mass-communication with 17 of his fellow friends. Jake is not the smartest boy in the class nor he's the dumbest dude around. He's just an ordinary student with BIG dreams. Okay let's cut to the chase..........

One of the thing that this Jake is quite a special guy is because that he's got a very competitive side of his that he rarely used it while studying or taking examinations. The truth is even though that he is a very competitive student but he is also one of the laziest dude around. Not dumb but Lazy..Untill one day..

Jake's class has a very complicated task up ahead that involves everyone in his class. It is a task that he and his classmates needs to memorize and read some Surah in Al-quran. Everyone must take it and there is no Exception! At first, Jake feels so damn lazy to memorize all of it and has no confidence in reading the surah at all..So he doesn't take this task very seriously.

At one time during class, Ustazah noticed that Jake is not doing his reading and memorizing quite smoothly. So she started to lecture him about the importance of this task. Not only that it involves almost 20% of his carry mark but it will give him some knowledge and skills on reading the Al-quran smoothly. She told Jake that he should take this task very seriously and put it on high priority for the sake of his future and his family.

Jake felt so guilty with his laziness so he determines to do this task much more better than before. But the word 'better' is not enough for Jake. During the class, Jake is struggling so hard in perfecting his skills in memorizing and reading the Surah in Al-quran but it isn't enough! Why? Because he noticed that there are other students that are more better than him. Some can read very smoothly without any errors and some can memorize almost everything in just a short period of time. This doesn't go well for Jake..

When it is his turn to start the task, he only manage to memorize 4 out of 9 Surahs in the Al-quran. He is not happy with this so he wanted to repeat the task again and promise that he'll be able to memorize more than just 4 Surahs. Ustazah finally realize that Jake is not just a lazy student but he is also a very competitive and a determine student at the same time. He just needs a little bit of motivation thats all.

So All Jake's been doing since the past few weeks is memorizing the surahs and practicing his skills in reading Al-quran and I can assure you that its getting better and better than before.

Finally, the time has come for him to repeat the task..This time, Jake is ready. He is ready to read the Al-quran. He is ready to start memorizing the surahs. He is ready for anything. Ustazah could see Jake's determine eyes firing inside. He just can't wait to get this over with and without wasting anytime, Ustazah has start the task again.

Jake manage to complete his reading in the al-quran and also manage to memorize 8 out of 9 surahs this time. It is a very impressive achievement! He can't believe it that he is able to do things that he thinks was impossible for him but he did it in the end and achieve it with flying colours! Ustazah was so proud of him for his achievement and so is Jake. She smiled at him as a sign of a congratulation to him and although the task is not quite complete and although the task is not that perfect like the others, but his determination in improving himself to be better is simply amazing. It was a day to remember for Jake...

All I can say right now is that Jake is very happy..and yeah that Jake is Me. Peace out!

Women can't be bosses

Over the past few weeks, I’ve been studying and doing some researches about which sex gender is better in being the boss of a company or any related statement. Well, according to my research and personal opinion, I found out that women can’t be bosses due to my three main points which are women are too emotional in doing businesses or works. Second, women can sometimes be too judgemental to other people. Lastly, women are too picky in some particular cases. These are the three main reasons that made me agree that women can’t be bosses.

Women are too emotional. I stand strong with this statement because it is true. Why? Well, based from my research, it shows that when it comes to some highly complicated matter, women will lose control of the situation with their emotions and will automatically make some silly, dumb and drastic decision. This might put the company into jeopardise like bad businesses and can also ruin the staff’s reputations and dignities.

Besides that, my second point is that women can sometimes be too judgemental of a character to other people. If you ask why then my answer would be that perfection are women’s middle name. Let me clear this statement that we all know that men are not that kind of a perfectionist which that is obviously true but women on the other hand, put perfection as one of their top priority in living. For example, if something went slightly wrong like a staff failed to do it’s job smoothly, a boss woman would judge and accuse that her staff can’t bring the goods instead of giving them some motivational support on advises.

You may read in some random article or heard about people around might say that women are not that picky in some particular cases. They said that men also can be pretty picky maybe some are more picky than the women. However, I can deny this saying one hundred percent because the truth is that the ‘picky’ attitude are most being dominated by the women according to my research respectively. With women being too picky in some particular cases makes that they are not suitable enough to be the boss because they cannot accept things that are not going according to their plan even though it doesn’t give any effect of the company at all. If this keeps going on, the staff will get bored or fed up with her attitude which can cause to some resignation of work from the staff. You know where I’m going with this that the company can get out or business with the loss of many staff just because of a boss woman being too picky. So what I’m saying is that, we can’t be too picky!

So in conclusion, let me repeat my thesis statement that I fully agree that women can’t be bosses due to my three main points which I already stated above. Actually, there a lot of reasons on why women can’t be bosses. A lot I say but these points are the obvious one and I don’t mean to be harsh to the women or anything but just accept the fact that you guys can’t be bosses companies or anything. But get this, that women are good in many things and I respect that. Once again, I agree that women can’t be bosses. Case closed.

Getting a new st[A]rt

My god, how long has it been since I actually updated my blog..it's a been a very long time..haha..I don't know why...only to know that over the past months...I've been through a lot..a lot I mean..and at that time, something that I didn't expected to happen..actually did happened and it has taken its toll on me.

Before this, the only reason that I've been writing my blog was because of you..and I thought that being with you would gave me some inspiration for me to always write about my life..write about what I've been doing recently..but unfortunately, you have to go..we have to be apart from each other only for some stupid reason..I don't blame you for this. Maybe it's for the best like you said in the past...that we should go on our separate lives and move on as it is..gosh I really miss you!

Because of that, I've been losing my mind a bit..losing my confidence in doing things..losing my mood in blogging..and unfortunately, losing my ability in writing..all that was because of you..I thought that without you, it would be the end of my inspiration towards everything..I know it sounded stupid but I thought it like that..don't blame me because you gave me a hell of a life back then..I thank you for that. Anyway, I wish you all the best in life and hope to be your good friend in the future. =)

For me, getting a new head start in life makes me much more better than before..I always learned my lessons in my life whether it is about my studies, my attitude or even my relationships life. All this I'm learning everyday slowly and carefully 'till I've reach my ultimate vision...and that is to be the best there is..the best there was and the best that's ever will be. Stay Frosty guys!